Am I Bisexual Quiz
What if the person who made your heart skip a beat was both a man and a woman at once? That’s where bisexuality comes in! Bisexuality is when someone feels attraction toward more than one gender—usually two genders at once (although some people may only feel attracted to one gender). It’s important to note that bisexuality isn’t just about being attracted to both men and women; it also encompasses other gender identities such as transgendered people (people who identify as neither male nor female), intersex people (people whose physical characteristics don’t fit into).
We all have our own definitions of what it means to be bisexual, and that’s why we created this quiz. We want to help you figure out if your definition of bisexuality matches up with the one in this quiz.
So whether you’ve never been with someone who identifies as LGBTQ+ before, or whether your sexual orientation has changed over time, take this quiz to find out if you’re really bisexual!
Tests you may want to take:
- Firstly, do you feel like your sexuality is a part of who you are?Not at allA littleMore than a littleA lotOf course
- Have you ever been in love with someone of the same sex?NeverJust onceOnce or twiceYes, several timesIt’s something that’s constant
- Do you find yourself more attracted to one gender than the other, but have had some experiences with the other one?NeverHappened just onceJust once or twiceSometimesAll the time
- Is the thought of having sex with a person of the same sex exciting to you?I’m not sure, but it might actually be excitingNot my thingEven thinking is enjoyableI wish I could, but I lack the confidence necessary to take actionYes, the thought is exciting, and I am open to all kinds of experiences
- Who do you picture as your partner when you consider a lasting relationship?I picture myself with a person who identifies as my genderAny gender, including non-binary or gender-expansive individuals, might be my partnerBoth a man and a woman would make me happy.I picture myself with a person of the other genderA long relationship is generally something I find difficult to grasp
- Do you think it’s okay for a man to be attracted to his wife’s best male friend? (or vice versa)Naturally, it is normalThe primary deal-breaker. There is a problem, regardless of genderLife is about experiences, and each person grows as a result of their own decisions. No commentIt does not make sense to begin a relationship with a straight partner before switching to a gay oneIt depends on each spouse in that marriage
- Do you think that being bisexual is something that can be learned or taught? Or is it something that someone just knows from an early age?Something taughtSomething learnedJust knows from an early ageTendencies come with natureIt is possible for people to become aware of their orientation at any age. The fact that orientations are an outcome of human nature is unaffected by this
- Does the thought of two people of the same sex being attracted to each other make you uncomfortable?No, why?I have no interest in what draws people in since doing so would make me homophobicThis would be absurd for real. I’m drawn to people of different genders.
- Are your romantic and sexual feelings different from each other?YesSomehowActually noIt depends on my mood
- Do you feel like your sexual identity is a part of your identity, or do you think it’s just something that happens sometimes?A part of my identitySomething that happens sometimesNeutralDepends on
- When it comes to relationships, do you like to pursue someone or wait for them to approach you?PursueWait for someone else to make the first moveDepends on
- You’ve heard rumors that a person of your own gender is attracted to you. Your feelings, what would they be? Please specify.ConfusedSkepticalAngryExcited
- Do you think that sexuality is a spectrum or a binary system?A spectrumA binary systemNot sure
- Do you ever get crushes on people of the same sex?YesOnce or twiceNever
- Have you ever wanted to kiss someone who’s the same sex as you?I do not recallJust onceTwice or moreNeverAll the time
- Do you have a preference for one gender over another, but also find yourself attracted to people of the opposite gender?SometimesUsuallyNoSounds interesting but still no
- Can you openly qualify yourself as bisexual?I used to, but not anymoreI qualify myself as straight, actuallyYes, always
- Have you ever had a one-night stand with someone of the same sex?Do not recallJust onceTwice or moreMany timesNever did this
- Do you feel like your sexuality is fixed? Or do you think it can change over time?It could be changeNot sure, time will tellIs fixed I guess
- What would you do if a total stranger—one of your own gender—sent you a free drink at a bar?Decline politelyI’d go over and say “Thanks” if they looked hot after you checked them outChug it and leaveI’d give them a personal thank you and ask for their phone numberI don’t think it’s appropriate to begin a relationship like this, regardless of gender
- Are there certain traits that make an attractive person to you? Do they change depending on who they’re attached to?There are some certain traitsThey change depending onBoth option work, not single one
- Do you have any “type” of person that you’re usually attracted to? If so, what is it?For me it’s the combination of cool, beautiful, caring. Genders do not matterOpposite gender, off beat, introverted, bookishConfident but not stuck up, smart, respectful, friendly, beautiful smileFor me it’s having knowledge, passion, priorities, friendliness, their attraction to me, and/or supportiveThe weird and quiet ones, same gender
- How do your feelings about bisexuality differ from your feelings about other sexual orientations?I cannot say there is a differ or somethingTendencies are natural, I don’t need to think deeply about them
- Let’s say you are truly bi, would you scare to come out because you fear you’ll instantly be labelled as gay?Definitely, so I’d repress that part of myself and only stay with the opposite sexIt comes down to the 'pick one side or the other' part of society, but I’d pick my sideI’d not be scared but still, not come out probably. I have a belief that someone who’s bi will just end up in a hetero relationship because it’s easierI would fool around with both sexes until I think it’s time to settle down
- Finally, what do you think of this statement “Being bi is just a stepping stone to being gay”?I think “Bi” is very misunderstoodWell, to be honest, it might very well be a stepping stone. It certainly is for some peopleI disagree with that. Even if you fell in love with the opposite gender and spent the rest of your life in monogamy with him, you’d still be bisexualHeard about half of the bisexuals at some point identified as gayIt’s not that way for everyone -- I’d even go so far as to say “most people.”