Am I Bisexual Quiz

What if the person who made your heart skip a beat was both a man and a woman at once? That’s where bisexuality comes in! Bisexuality is when someone feels attraction toward more than one gender—usually two genders at once (although some people may only feel attracted to one gender). It’s important to note that bisexuality isn’t just about being attracted to both men and women; it also encompasses other gender identities such as transgendered people (people who identify as neither male nor female), intersex people (people whose physical characteristics don’t fit into).

We all have our own definitions of what it means to be bisexual, and that’s why we created this quiz. We want to help you figure out if your definition of bisexuality matches up with the one in this quiz.

So whether you’ve never been with someone who identifies as LGBTQ+ before, or whether your sexual orientation has changed over time, take this quiz to find out if you’re really bisexual!

• Firstly, do you feel like your sexuality is a part of who you are?

  Not at all

  A little

  More than a little

  A lot

  Of course
• Have you ever been in love with someone of the same sex?

  Never

  Just once

  Once or twice

  Yes, several times

  It’s something that’s constant
• Do you find yourself more attracted to one gender than the other, but have had some experiences with the other one?

  Never

  Happened just once

  Just once or twice

  Sometimes

  All the time
• Is the thought of having sex with a person of the same sex exciting to you?

  I’m not sure, but it might actually be exciting

  Not my thing

  Even thinking is enjoyable

  I wish I could, but I lack the confidence necessary to take action

  Yes, the thought is exciting, and I am open to all kinds of experiences
• Who do you picture as your partner when you consider a lasting relationship?

  I picture myself with a person who identifies as my gender

  Any gender, including non-binary or gender-expansive individuals, might be my partner

  Both a man and a woman would make me happy.

  I picture myself with a person of the other gender

  A long relationship is generally something I find difficult to grasp
• Do you think it’s okay for a man to be attracted to his wife’s best male friend? (or vice versa)

  Naturally, it is normal

  The primary deal-breaker. There is a problem, regardless of gender

  Life is about experiences, and each person grows as a result of their own decisions. No comment

  It does not make sense to begin a relationship with a straight partner before switching to a gay one

  It depends on each spouse in that marriage
• Do you think that being bisexual is something that can be learned or taught? Or is it something that someone just knows from an early age?

  Something taught

  Something learned

  Just knows from an early age

  Tendencies come with nature

  It is possible for people to become aware of their orientation at any age. The fact that orientations are an outcome of human nature is unaffected by this
• Does the thought of two people of the same sex being attracted to each other make you uncomfortable?

  No, why?

  I have no interest in what draws people in since doing so would make me homophobic

  This would be absurd for real. I’m drawn to people of different genders.
• Are your romantic and sexual feelings different from each other?

  Yes

  Somehow

  Actually no

  It depends on my mood
• Do you feel like your sexual identity is a part of your identity, or do you think it’s just something that happens sometimes?

  A part of my identity

  Something that happens sometimes

  Neutral

  Depends on
• When it comes to relationships, do you like to pursue someone or wait for them to approach you?

  Pursue

  Wait for someone else to make the first move

  Depends on
• You’ve heard rumors that a person of your own gender is attracted to you. Your feelings, what would they be? Please specify.

  Confused

  Skeptical

  Angry

  Excited
• Do you think that sexuality is a spectrum or a binary system?

  A spectrum

  A binary system

  Not sure
• Do you ever get crushes on people of the same sex?

  Yes

  Once or twice

  Never
• Have you ever wanted to kiss someone who’s the same sex as you?

  I do not recall

  Just once

  Twice or more

  Never

  All the time
• Do you have a preference for one gender over another, but also find yourself attracted to people of the opposite gender?

  Sometimes

  Usually

  No

  Sounds interesting but still no
• Can you openly qualify yourself as bisexual?

  I used to, but not anymore

  I qualify myself as straight, actually

  Yes, always
• Have you ever had a one-night stand with someone of the same sex?

  Do not recall

  Just once

  Twice or more

  Many times

  Never did this
• Do you feel like your sexuality is fixed? Or do you think it can change over time?

  It could be change

  Not sure, time will tell

  Is fixed I guess
• What would you do if a total stranger—one of your own gender—sent you a free drink at a bar?

  Decline politely

  I’d go over and say “Thanks” if they looked hot after you checked them out

  Chug it and leave

  I’d give them a personal thank you and ask for their phone number

  I don’t think it’s appropriate to begin a relationship like this, regardless of gender
• Are there certain traits that make an attractive person to you? Do they change depending on who they’re attached to?

  There are some certain traits

  They change depending on

  Both option work, not single one
• Do you have any “type” of person that you’re usually attracted to? If so, what is it?

  For me it’s the combination of cool, beautiful, caring. Genders do not matter

  Opposite gender, off beat, introverted, bookish

  Confident but not stuck up, smart, respectful, friendly, beautiful smile

  For me it’s having knowledge, passion, priorities, friendliness, their attraction to me, and/or supportive

  The weird and quiet ones, same gender
• How do your feelings about bisexuality differ from your feelings about other sexual orientations?

  I cannot say there is a differ or something

  Tendencies are natural, I don’t need to think deeply about them
• Let’s say you are truly bi, would you scare to come out because you fear you’ll instantly be labelled as gay?

  Definitely, so I’d repress that part of myself and only stay with the opposite sex

  It comes down to the 'pick one side or the other' part of society, but I’d pick my side

  I’d not be scared but still, not come out probably. I have a belief that someone who’s bi will just end up in a hetero relationship because it’s easier

  I would fool around with both sexes until I think it’s time to settle down
• Finally, what do you think of this statement “Being bi is just a stepping stone to being gay”?

  I think “Bi” is very misunderstood

  Well, to be honest, it might very well be a stepping stone. It certainly is for some people

  I disagree with that. Even if you fell in love with the opposite gender and spent the rest of your life in monogamy with him, you’d still be bisexual

  Heard about half of the bisexuals at some point identified as gay

  It’s not that way for everyone -- I’d even go so far as to say “most people.”